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It may appear to everyone that nothing seems to be happening but believe me when I say plenty is happening behind the scenes. God is working on the “Purification Process” around the clock and all we need right now is patience. I would like your brother to keep the conflict to the very minimum or none at all. This process is to be taken seriously and it will take time, quite a bit of time so everyone just be patient. Once the process is nearly completed I will inform you in the meantime you both have some work to do.
To the brother who can’t stop arguing.You are not cooperating. Everyday you continue to “Blaspheme against God,” disrespecting God. Trying to not only put me in danger but your family and the rest of the people on this planet. Do you feel proud of yourself? “Bright Eyes” is your brother. Regardless of the things he might have done in his past, you need to stop this pain your causing everyone. I don’t care about what happened in his past or yours. Whether you or him had many relationships in the past or someone fell to temptation, or hang out with the wrong people, or did things that was not socially acceptable or you all did things you are not proud of, it is not my concern—Lucifer is my concern and the person who he is using to get to me. Has far has I am concerned you shouldn’t try to hold your brothers past life history over his head, using that as a means to get to me. You could come up with a millions things to try and ruin your brother. What would be the point of it? You think after what you have done to him, I will now turn around and then forget about him and come to you and love you enough to be in a relationship with you? Are you out of your mind? Nope. I don’t operate like that. Maybe the rest of the population but I don’t function like that.
Don’t you think God already long before either of you were born knew the kind of life you both would have? God created you both he already has a file on everyone. God never ever make mistakes—Never. So, when God decide to choose a certain person or a set of people to work with, God never ever makes mistakes. God created this planet and the universe, so why would God make mistakes? God’s main concern and my main concern is the person who have Lucifer in their soul and that person is you—{dear brother} the one who have been causing me and God and your brother so much opposition for the past 18 months now, with the constant arguments, strife and endless conflicts.
Yes, 18 months almost 2 years. You honestly can look at the people around you including your family and friends and say that your behaviour is normal? It is not normal. You need to stop this. You have caused so much hurt and pain to everyone including me. Yet, you talk about love and forcing and pushing to be in my life. What love? First you need to love yourself and appreciate yourself and learn the art of compassion and kindness and respect for not only yourself but for the people around you. You are trying to prove to everyone around you that you are perfect that you are better than your brother that is why you are carrying on the way you are. I don’t know about everything he has done in his life, but guess what? Whether God had chosen someone else, I don’t really care about peoples past. The past is gone, it is so far gone, I can’t see it in the rearview mirror. What you are trying to do is tell everyone around you that you have never, ever done anything in your life that you know you should not have done, and I know and God knows that is not true. I am not saying you did something bad, I am just saying no one is perfect including you.
I believe your angry with me too quite a bit for many things, but one of them is because you felt I didn’t know you were there and and I didn’t notice you. I remember everything about you, everything the day I met you. I never forget a face ever since I was a small child, I could recall people in great detail. I never forget the people I meet. What do you want from me the truth?
I can give you the truth you are a good looking guy, who could in the future make some woman happy, but I am in love with “Bright Eyes” and my feelings won’t change, just because you want me to, it doesn’t work like that with me. My decision wasn’t based on looks. Here is my best offer to you, you can take it or leave it, please believe me when I say this is a one time offer and I won’t make the offer again. I also don’t like breaking my promises, I like to keep my promises, so if I promise someone I will do something I usually keep my word. Once all this is done and over with, I am offering you the opportunity for us to just talk, because we will need to talk anyway, to clear the air, I wouldn’t want any animosity between us going forward and we can talk as long as you want. Please do not take this as I am inlove with you. Showing compassion and kindness does not equal been inlove and for some reason any kind of gesture from me, you seem to be taking it to mean something else other than what is intended. It is obvious that at some point in time we will have to be around each other, and I am not the quote and quote, “avoid the person for eternity kind of person.” I like to feel comfortable around the people that I am in close contact with.
So, we will only get together and talk only after your brother and I have officially come together and have already made contact with each other, not before.“Bright Eyes” is the one that I have already chosen and that God has chosen a long time ago, and you have to respect the decision. If you don’t respect my decision that means you don’t respect or value me as person and it also means you don’t have any respect for your brother or God. Regardless, of what he may have or have not done in his life to cause you this great deal of anger he is still your brother—and no one is perfect including you. It doesn’t matter if you feel you are a better fit as a person, at the end of the day it is my decision and you should respect that.
Please note, that if you continue to be very angry and cause alot of strife and conflict, and continue to stand in your brothers way and continue to create more opposition and roadblocks for him and keeping forcing to get to me and continue to make everyone unhappy, and keep opposing myself and God, I will not only take back the offer but I will end the Purification process.
Respect for God is very important, but you don’t seem to have any for God you keep blaspheming against God. God has three places, Heaven, Hell or Purgatory where would you like to go? Where ever you want to go God will send you. I want to send you Heaven but you seem to want to go somewhere else. Don’t you think God and myself have been patient enough? You are working on behalf of Lucifer if you are opposing God and myself and I am working on behalf of God. Who do you think will succeed? God never fails, never. God says:
“I am the Alpha and the Omega! the first and the last, the beginning and the end. Yahweh!”
What is done, is done.
You have two choices dear brother: You can choose to keep opposing God, blaspheme against God and end up living a shorter lifespan and going to a place no wants to go to, or you can choose God and live for many, many years. What is your choice, Life or Death? Eternal damnation or Everlasting Life? Choose wisely.
Many people would be glad God speared their life but you no. Please don’t continue to get me upset you have caused so much opposition for me and God 18 months now almost 2 years. How long do you want to go for? By continuing to oppose your brother God and myself you are saying you don’t respect God and his decision. Regardless if you feel you were the better choice, it is at the end of the day, God’s choice. What God has written and put in place so shall it be done! You are not more powerful than God. Do you understand me? God can do things you can never even begin to imagine. Please do not continue to oppose God. Now is the time for all the conflict to cease for all of us to start healing, it will take time but healing will happen.
I don’t know how God thought I could manage both of you. You both are a handful, if God didn’t choose me to do this I would have declined. However, I trust God and he always has a reason has to why he does the things he does. In the end, he always has a valid reason and things usually work out fine.
To the brother, wherever your mind is right now, I need you to “come down to earth” and wake up, yes, wake up because no matter what anyone says to you, you are not listening it’s like you have tunnel vision your not seeing or listening to anyone you only hear what you want to hear, and that is how Lucifer works, he his in your soul influencing you, you can’t see him but he is there. Stop feeling so jealous of your brother, he’s your brother you will always need a brother. Wake up—snap out of it! Get out and stop focusing on me and focus on rebuilding your life, find another interest during this time period, do something you love doing and spend time with friends if you have any.
Go to a great restaurant have a meal you enjoy, visit the book store and read a great book especially books on relationships and learning the art of Love. Read magazines on Relationships, etc. In order to love someone else you must first love and appreciate yourself. Learn to get reacquainted with the person you know—yourself and find out what makes you the happiest in life. Just keep busy and stop focusing on me 24/7. The only reason you have been after me for 18 months now is because Lucifer wants you to. It is not normal for someone to pursuit someone for 18 months, the only person that would come after me so long and with such ferocity, and determination is Lucifer never wanting to give up. His mission is to destroy lives on this planet and my mission and God’s mission is to restore and heal this planet and let people live healthier lives. I want to make people’s lives better that is why Lucifer has you pushing and forcing to get me.
I am sorry, God won’t give you and Lucifer that opportunity. For some reason you feel your inlove with me. No, your not. Everything coming from you right now is not love, it has nothing to do with love. Your emotions are mixed with Jealousy, strife, anger and more anger every single day. Until you delete, yes, delete all that hostility from your system you will never get anyone to be in a relationship with you. I don’t think you want to live alone for the rest of your life. Love doesn’t work like that dear. You have to learn how to love, truly, truly learn the art of loving again. Yes, both of you should work on those areas of your lives.
Reconciliation
To (the brother) and “Bright Eyes” I would like both of you to start working on improving the relationship between the two of you. Both of you have three months (3 months) to start developing a decent relationship with each other. Do you both understand me? Both of you are brothers. Brothers need each other and brothers are suppose to be close with each other. Brothers shouldn’t be fighting like this, I don’t like that, especially (you the brother) that goes for you too—You have too much anger and jealousy towards your brother too much I want you to get rid of it completely out your system. Jealousy doesn’t work in my world. You have caused everyone so much pain, including me and your brother. Yes, it will take time for everyone to heal but it will happen, the sooner we start the process the better.
You need to learn the art of communication. You need to learn to communicate your feelings without been so angry all the time. You can express yourself without slicing people in half with your words. Yes, I know you have a bad, bad temper. Yes, I know you felt strongly or still feel that your brother have more problems than you to fix. You could spend eternity trying to decide who have more problems to fix. It doesn’t matter if you believe he has more problems to fix or not, let God deal with that. God can fix any problem because God is a powerful God. What you need to concentrate on is yourself.
Anger is like cancer it eats away at the soul and at everything else in your life day by day if you don’t let it go and bury it. That is what Lucifer brought to this world. Everything that causes pain and suffering. God doesn’t offer that. God offers, love, compassion, kindness, peace, justice, and a life filled with peace. Lucifer offers so much pain, so much. Anyway, when it comes to you nothing seems to make you happy. Change the way you think and you can change your mindset. Instead of focusing on past stuff, and what was or not is, or what you won’t have. Start focusing on the future.
Yes, the future. better times are ahead, focus on that instead of been so angry all the time. When people start to think about how much better their lives are going to be that the worst is over and that God is paving the way for old things to be gone and for new and better things to come—then you can start feeling happier about life. Everything with God is always good, great, wonderful and splendid. With Lucifer, it’s pain, sorrow, misfortune, suffering, illness, dying early and no happiness. With God life is always like a “bright sunny day” no clouds in sight. God always make people happier and the world better that is always God’s mission to make people live longer lives and have happier healthier lives, not like Lucifer who wants all the people on this planet to suffer and die early. That is why he is causing all this opposition, Lucifer doesn’t want anyone in this world to live a good life, no one including you—Dear brother. If people out in the world really knew what he was like, they wouldn’t do the things they do, they would realize how cruel and mean he his and how much he wants them to suffer.
Yes, as I was saying to your brother “Bright Eyes.” If your brother wants anyone to come into his life and to create a close bond with him, and to have a loving relationship with him, trust me when I say, if he continues like this for the rest of his life, no one will find him appealing. Your first step in doing that is not believing you can control others, you cannot dictate for others. People are not slaves or puppets, they are humans just like you. If the tables were turned on you, you would not want anyone to control you, or cause you this much pain, sadness and opposition. So, stop trying to control others, stop forcing yourself on others, no one will ever like you for it. People will avoid you like the plague, no one will want to be with you because of your attitude.
For “Bright Eyes” you already know you have some things to work on yes, quite a bit of things you need to work on and one of them is “Humility.” You need to learn the art of humility and grace. God does not care about your status or wealth in life, it means nothing to God. I know you carry many regrets about what happened but, I want you to know that what happened was out of your control. I know you keep asking yourself why did you make the decision you did but it wasn’t your fault. Stop feeling so bad. God was watching over me the whole time and he was keeping an eye on you and your brother. Anyway, God is about humility grace, compassion, loving kindness, and respect for all remember the more humble you are the closer you move towards God.
Whatever you did in the past that have brought you all this regret it is time to let it go. What is done is done. Learn from the lessons, they are yours for keeps but you need to take the lessons from the experience and use it to heal your life.
I would like to ask both of you to please pray the rosary at least 3 times per week, more if you can. If you can attend church I recommend that both of you attend church, if you can attend church together do that, as a matter of fact I recommend you both do this together, this will help build a better relationship with both of you.Yes, I know it won’t be a “bed of roses” at the beginning, but brothers need each other, I want both of you to develop a close relationship, again. I want both of you to make the effort and to rebuild a close bond again, I want both of you to stop fighting with each other. To your brother, you are the one that is going to have to put in the effort to heal the bond with your brother “Bright Eyes.” Even if at the beginning you don’t feel like sitting together, sit in a different place but attend church together, the church is big enough to hold both of you. (to the brother who needs to work on not only his anger but other things) I recommend you attend church at least twice per month, when I see you in the future, if you can’t explain one bible verse to me or talk about God in a respectful, and kind way, well, our conversation will be cut short, and yes, I mean what I say. I know how to interpret every verse in the bible, so try to attend church. Don’t be scared about attending church even twice per month is okay, it is a place where you always feel even closer to God. Yes, and give generously at church, churches need all the support they can get.
Continue living your normal everyday lives the “Purification Process” is painless and no you can’t see what is happening but plenty is happening behind the scenes. Please it must not be taken lightly no one is allowed to have any kind of relationship with anyone during this time and must avoid all forms of sin. Why can’t anyone have any relationship with anyone? The rest of the people out there in the world will be sinners at the end of the purification process you will no longer be sinners. That is why both of you are not allowed to have any kind of relationship with anyone. That is why I said please take this very seriously, the process wipes away all sin, whether anyone sinned or not, the “Purification Process” is still necessary. Yes, your family is very special to God you are called the chosen “Saints.” God bless you all. There is wonderful things to come in the future, great things but we have time all we need right now is patience.
So, {Dear brother} almost this entire blog post is about you. Yes, indeed. Below I have posted a song just for you, you have a lot to think about….enjoy the song.
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Have a Great Weekend Everyone!

Stormie Omartian Prayer of the Day
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When You Need to Remember Who You Are in Christ
Dear God, I thank You that I am renewed according to the image of Christ stamped upon my heart and mind. Help me to get rid of anything old in my life that would keep me from becoming more like You every day. Help me to put off the old person I used to be-even as recently as yesterday-and put on the new person You have made me to be in Christ. Continue to renew my mind and soul so I can be made more and more like You.
Do not lie to one another, since you have put off the old man with his deeds, and have put on the new man who is renewed in knowledge according to the image of Him who created him.
Colossians 3:8-10
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Love Hedley and I love this song….This song is for your brother “Bright Eyes” God only give us so many chances, grab it while you can….There are good things in store for you, all will be well, I promise you that all will be well. The future will be good to you—right now you don’t feel that way, but I would never lie to you, just to make you feel better…enjoy
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This song is for you “Bright Eyes” I hope you love your name because I am keeping it forever. I miss you dearly and I know you do too, I know you will love this song one I like very much I keep hitting the replay button, I know it will make you smile—have a great weekend….turn this up and enjoy! Your so Fly….







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