Taking the first Steps to Reconcile

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It may appear to everyone that nothing seems to be happening but believe me when I say plenty is happening behind the scenes. God is working on the “Purification Process” around the clock and all we need right now is patience. I would like your brother to keep the conflict to the very minimum or none at all. This process is to be taken seriously and it will take time, quite a bit of time so everyone just be patient. Once the process is nearly completed I will inform you in the meantime you both have some work to do.

To the brother who can’t stop arguing.You are not cooperating. Everyday you continue to “Blaspheme against God,” disrespecting God. Trying to not only put me in danger but your family and the rest of the people on this planet. Do you feel proud of yourself? “Bright Eyes” is your brother. Regardless of the things he might have done in his past, you need to stop this pain your causing everyone. I don’t care about what happened in his past or yours. Whether you or him had many relationships in the past or someone fell to temptation, or hang out with the wrong people, or did things that was not socially acceptable or you all did things you are not proud of, it is not my concern—Lucifer is my concern and the person who he is using to get to me. Has far has I am concerned you shouldn’t try to hold your brothers past life history over his head, using that as a means to get to me. You could come up with a millions things to try and ruin your brother. What would be the point of it? You think after what you have done to him, I will now turn around and then forget about him and come to you and love you enough to be in a relationship with you? Are you out of your mind? Nope. I don’t operate like that. Maybe the rest of the population but I don’t function like that.

Don’t you think God already long before either of you were born knew  the kind of life you both would have? God created you both he already has a file on everyone. God never ever make mistakes—Never. So, when God decide to choose a certain person or a set of people to work with, God never ever makes mistakes. God created this planet and the universe, so why would God make mistakes? God’s main concern and my main concern is the person who have Lucifer in their soul and that person is you—{dear brother} the one who have been causing me and God and your brother so much opposition for the past 18 months now, with the constant arguments, strife and endless conflicts.

Yes, 18 months almost 2 years. You honestly can look at the people around you including your family and friends and say that your behaviour is normal? It is not normal. You need to stop this. You have caused so much hurt and pain to everyone including me. Yet, you talk about love and forcing and pushing to be in my life. What love? First you need to love yourself and appreciate yourself and learn the art of compassion and kindness and respect for not only yourself but for the people around you. You are trying to prove to everyone around you that you are perfect that you are better than your brother that is why you are carrying on the way you are. I don’t know about everything he has done in his life, but guess what? Whether God had chosen someone else, I don’t really care about peoples past. The past is gone, it is so far gone, I can’t see it in the rearview mirror. What you are trying to do is tell everyone around you that you have never, ever done anything in your life that you know you should not have done, and I know and God knows that is not true. I am not saying you did something bad, I am just saying no one is perfect including you.

I believe your angry with me too quite a bit for many things, but one of them is because you felt I didn’t know you were there and and I didn’t notice you. I remember everything about you, everything the day I met you. I never forget a face ever since I was a small child, I could recall people in great detail. I never forget the people I meet. What do you want from me the truth?

I can give you the truth you are a good looking guy, who could in the future make some woman happy,  but I am in love with “Bright Eyes” and my feelings won’t change, just because you want me to, it doesn’t work like that with me. My decision wasn’t based on looks. Here is my best offer to you, you can take it or leave it, please believe me when I say this is a one time offer and I won’t make the offer again. I also don’t like breaking my promises, I like to keep my promises, so if I promise someone I will do something I usually keep my word. Once all this is done and over with, I am offering you the opportunity for us to just talk, because we will need to talk anyway, to clear the air, I wouldn’t want any animosity between us going forward and we can talk as long as you want. Please do not take this as I am inlove with you. Showing compassion and kindness does not equal been inlove and for some reason any kind of gesture from me, you seem to be taking it to mean something else other than what is intended. It is obvious that at some point in time we will have to be around each other, and I am not the quote and quote, “avoid the person for eternity kind of person.” I like to feel comfortable around the people that I am in close contact with.

So, we will only get together and talk only after your brother and I have officially come together and have already made contact with each other, not before.“Bright Eyes” is the one that I have already chosen and that God has chosen a long time ago, and you have to respect the decision. If you don’t respect my decision that means you don’t respect or value me as person and it also means you don’t have any respect for your brother or God. Regardless, of what he may have or have not done in his life to cause you this great deal of anger he is still your brother—and no one is perfect including you. It doesn’t matter if you feel you are a better fit as a person, at the end of the day it is my decision and you should respect that.

Please note, that if you continue to be very angry and cause alot of strife and conflict, and continue to stand in your brothers way and continue to create more opposition and roadblocks for him and keeping forcing to get to me and continue to make everyone unhappy, and keep opposing myself and God, I will not only take back the offer but I will end the Purification process. 

Respect for God is very important, but you don’t seem to have any for God you keep blaspheming against God. God has three places, Heaven, Hell or Purgatory where would you like to go? Where ever you want to go God will send you. I want to send you Heaven but you seem to want to go somewhere else. Don’t you think God and myself have been patient enough? You are working on behalf of Lucifer if you are opposing God and myself and I am working on behalf of God. Who do you think will succeed? God never fails, never. God says:

“I am the Alpha and the Omega! the first and the last, the beginning and the end. Yahweh!”
What is done, is done.

You have two choices dear brother: You can choose to keep opposing God, blaspheme against God and end up living a shorter lifespan and going to a place no wants to go to, or you can choose God and live for many, many years. What is your choice, Life or Death? Eternal damnation or Everlasting Life? Choose wisely.

Many people would be glad God speared their life but you no. Please don’t continue to get me upset you have caused so much opposition for me and God 18 months now almost 2 years. How long do you want to go for? By continuing to oppose your brother God and myself you are saying you don’t respect God and his decision. Regardless if you feel you were the better choice, it is at the end of the day, God’s choice. What God has written and put in place so shall it be done! You are not more powerful than God. Do you understand me? God can do things you can never even begin to imagine. Please do not continue to oppose God. Now is the time for all the conflict to cease for all of us to start healing, it will take time but healing will happen.

I don’t know how God thought I could manage both of you. You both are a handful, if God didn’t choose me to do this I would have declined. However, I trust God and he always has a reason has to why he does the things he does. In the end, he always has a valid reason and things usually work out fine.

To the brother, wherever your mind is right now, I need you to “come down to earth” and wake up, yes, wake up because no matter what anyone says to you, you are not listening it’s like you have tunnel vision your not seeing or listening to anyone you only hear what you want to hear, and that is how Lucifer works, he his in your soul influencing you, you can’t see him but he is there. Stop feeling so jealous of your brother, he’s your brother you will always need a brother. Wake up—snap out of it! Get out and stop focusing on me and focus on rebuilding your life, find another interest during this time period, do something you love doing and spend time with friends if you have any.

Go to a great restaurant have a meal you enjoy, visit the book store and read a great book especially books on relationships and learning the art of Love. Read magazines on Relationships, etc. In order to love someone else you must first love and appreciate yourself. Learn to get reacquainted with the person you know—yourself and find out what makes you the happiest in life. Just keep busy and stop focusing on me 24/7. The only reason you have been after me for 18 months now is because Lucifer wants you to. It is not normal for someone to pursuit someone for 18 months, the only person that would come after me so long and with such ferocity, and determination is Lucifer never wanting to give up. His mission is to destroy lives on this planet and my mission and God’s mission is to restore and heal this planet and let people live healthier lives. I want to make people’s lives better that is why Lucifer has you pushing and forcing to get me.

I am sorry, God won’t give  you and Lucifer that opportunity. For some reason you feel your inlove with me. No, your not. Everything coming from you right now is not love, it has nothing to do with love. Your emotions are mixed with Jealousy, strife, anger and more anger every single day. Until you delete, yes, delete all that hostility from your system you will never get anyone to be in a relationship with you. I don’t think you want to live alone for the rest of your life. Love doesn’t work like that dear. You have to learn how to love, truly, truly learn the art of loving again. Yes, both of you should work on those areas of your lives.

 Reconciliation

To (the brother) and “Bright Eyes” I would like both of you to start working on improving the relationship between the two of you. Both of you have three months (3 months) to start developing a decent relationship with each other. Do you both understand me? Both of you are brothers. Brothers need each other and brothers are suppose to be close with each other. Brothers shouldn’t be fighting like this, I don’t like that, especially (you the brother) that goes for you too—You have too much anger and jealousy towards your brother too much I want you to get rid of it completely out your system. Jealousy doesn’t work in my world. You have caused everyone so much pain, including me and your brother. Yes, it will take time for everyone to heal but it will happen, the sooner we start the process the better.

 You need to learn the art of communication. You need to learn to communicate your feelings without been so angry all the time. You can express  yourself without slicing people in half with your words. Yes, I know you have a bad, bad temper. Yes, I know you  felt strongly or still feel that your brother have more problems than you to fix. You could spend eternity trying to decide who have more problems to fix. It doesn’t matter if you believe he has more problems to fix or not, let God deal with that. God can fix any problem because God is a powerful God. What you need to concentrate on is yourself.

Anger is like cancer it eats away at the soul and at everything else in your life day by day if you don’t let it go and bury it. That is what Lucifer brought to this world. Everything that causes pain and suffering. God doesn’t offer that. God offers, love, compassion, kindness, peace, justice, and a life filled with peace. Lucifer offers so much pain, so much. Anyway, when it comes to you nothing seems to make you happy. Change the way you think and you can change your mindset. Instead of focusing on past stuff, and what was or not is, or what you won’t have. Start focusing on the future.

Yes, the future. better times are ahead, focus on that instead of been so angry all the time. When people start to think about how much better their lives are going to be that the worst is over and that God is paving the way for old things to be gone and for new and better things to come—then you can start feeling happier about life. Everything with God is always good, great, wonderful and splendid. With Lucifer, it’s pain, sorrow, misfortune, suffering, illness, dying early and no happiness. With God life is always like a “bright sunny day” no clouds in sight. God always make people happier and the world better that is always God’s mission to make people live longer lives and have happier healthier lives, not like Lucifer who wants all the people on this planet to suffer and die early. That is why he is causing all this opposition, Lucifer doesn’t want anyone in this world to live a good life, no one including you—Dear brother. If people out in the world really knew what he was like, they wouldn’t do the things they do, they would realize how cruel and mean he his and how much he wants them to suffer.

Yes, as I was saying to your brother “Bright Eyes.” If your brother wants anyone to come into his life and to create a close bond with him, and to have a loving relationship with him, trust me when I say, if he continues like this for the rest of his life, no one will find him appealing. Your first step in doing that is not believing you can control others, you cannot dictate for others. People are not slaves or puppets, they are humans just like you. If the tables were turned on you, you would not want anyone to control you, or cause you this much pain, sadness and opposition. So, stop trying to control others, stop forcing yourself on others, no one will ever like you for it. People will avoid you like the plague, no one will want to be with you because of your attitude.

For “Bright Eyes” you already know you have some things to work on yes, quite a bit of things you need to work on and one of them is “Humility.” You need to learn the art of humility and grace. God does not care about your status or wealth in life, it means nothing to God. I know you carry many regrets about what happened but, I want you to know that what happened was out of your control. I know you keep asking yourself why did you make the decision you did but it wasn’t your fault. Stop feeling so bad. God was watching over me the whole time and he was keeping an eye on you and your brother. Anyway, God is about humility grace, compassion, loving kindness, and respect for all remember the more humble you are the closer you move towards God.

Matthew 23:12 But those who think themselves great shall be disappointed and humbled; and those who humble themselves shall be exalted.

Whatever you did in the past that have brought you all this regret it is time to let it go. What is done is done. Learn from the lessons,  they are yours for keeps but you need to take the lessons from the experience and use it to heal your life.

I would like to ask both of you to please pray the rosary at least 3 times per week, more if you can. If you can attend church I recommend that both of you attend church, if you can attend church together do that, as a matter of fact I recommend you both do this together, this will help build a better relationship with both of you.Yes, I know it won’t be a “bed of roses” at the beginning, but brothers need each other, I want both of you to develop a close relationship, again. I want both of you to make the effort and to rebuild a close bond again, I want both of you to stop fighting with each other. To your brother, you are the one that is going to have to put in the effort to heal the bond with your brother “Bright Eyes.” Even if at the beginning you don’t feel like sitting together, sit in a different place but attend church together, the church is big enough to hold both of you. (to the brother who needs to work on not only his anger but other things) I recommend you attend church at least twice per month, when I see you in the future, if you can’t explain one bible verse to me or talk about God in a respectful, and kind way, well, our conversation will be cut short, and yes, I mean what I say. I know how to interpret every verse in the bible, so try to attend church. Don’t be scared about attending church even twice per month is okay, it is a place where you always feel even closer to God. Yes, and give generously at church, churches need all the support they can get.

Continue living your normal everyday lives the “Purification Process” is painless and no you can’t see what is happening but plenty is happening behind the scenes. Please it must not be taken lightly no one is allowed to have any kind of relationship with anyone during this time and must avoid all forms of sin. Why can’t anyone have any relationship with anyone? The rest of the people out there in the world will be sinners at the end of the purification process you will no longer be sinners. That is why both of you are not allowed to have any kind of relationship with anyone. That is why I said please take this very seriously, the process wipes away all sin, whether anyone sinned or not, the “Purification Process” is still necessary. Yes, your family is very special to God you are called the chosen “Saints.” God bless you all. There is wonderful things to come in the future, great things but we have time all we need right now is patience.

So, {Dear brother} almost this entire blog post is about you. Yes, indeed. Below I have posted a song just for you, you have a lot to think about….enjoy the song.

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Have a Great Weekend Everyone!

Stormie Omartian Prayer of the Day
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When You Need to Remember Who You Are in Christ

Dear God, I thank You that I am renewed according to the image of Christ stamped upon my heart and mind. Help me to get rid of anything old in my life that would keep me from becoming more like You every day. Help me to put off the old person I used to be-even as recently as yesterday-and put on the new person You have made me to be in Christ. Continue to renew my mind and soul so I can be made more and more like You.

Do not lie to one another, since you have put off the old man with his deeds, and have put on the new man who is renewed in knowledge according to the image of Him who created him.

Colossians 3:8-10

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Love Hedley and I love this song….This song is for your brother “Bright Eyes” God only give us so many chances, grab it while you can….There are good things in store for you, all will be well, I promise you that all will be well. The future will be good to you—right now you don’t feel that way, but I would never lie to you, just to make you feel better…enjoy

 

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This song is for you “Bright Eyes” I hope you love your name because I am keeping it forever. I miss you dearly and I know you do too, I know you will love this song one I like very much I keep hitting the replay button, I know it will make you smile—have a great weekend….turn this up and enjoy! Your so Fly….

Healing our Hearts

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Booster Shots For Living

Today is just one of those  days no one wants to go outside. It is just messy out there, wet snow, slippery and cold. March break is coming soon, I hope the weather gets better for the kids. Anyway, I wanted to write today because I felt this was important for me to say these things. I know you have all asked yourselves how can I see or how did I know everyone was there. It is hard for me to explain. Let’s just call it awareness.

I did not know I had the ability to do this until I was 10 years old. God gave me many gifts and I believe he did it because he knew how difficult my journey in life would be and that I need some help to keep me away from danger, to help keep me safe. My Grandmother knew I was quite aware but I never really tell people because one, they don’t know me and two, people always assume your different or weird if you have a special ability. I am neither weird or crazy or whatever labels people might want to give me. I am just simply a mom with two kids that I love dearly and that I am a woman who love God and Jesus and faith.

I know many people make assumptions about me when they first meet me but that’s okay, I don’t hold it against them. I would also like to say that, many times on my blog I play certain music that may seem offensive to some people, but to me it is not. Music is the only thing I can enjoy without it causing me any sin. It is the only thing God will allow me to get away with. Ever since I was a teenager I realized I was not going to be able to live like most people. So, I know that I can play or listen to whatever music I want and it won’t hurt me.

Yes, please excuse some of the music I play it is just my personality, in the Caribbean we are not people who are shy when it comes our image or sexuality meaning we are very comfortable in our own skin. I grew up like that, it doesn’t mean I am a woman who gets around if you know what I mean. I am the only woman on this planet that can’t have relationship with anyone unless they are chosen by God. I know you might be asking yourselves, why did God choose the people he did knowing full well what they have done or knowing full well their behaviour?” Well, God is a powerful God, and God knew that he can “Purify and make whole—make clean any person or persons he chooses and God always have a very valid reason why he does the things he does.” You can’t see the bigger picture yet, but you will in the future, I promise you that. Many times God choose people who need to work on themselves. When God wants to make people shine and come to their full potential then, many people will have to endure “Spiritual Suffering, Shame, Guilt and Remorse,” in order to reach God. Getting to God is not a easy Journey it is always fraught with many “Potholes” and many mishaps. If your not careful yes, you can get hurt along the way. 

I would also like to apologize to everyone if I have offended you with some of the things I say on my blog. I sincerely did not mean to do so. Whenever, I write especially if I am talking about God, it will appear to many people that I am talking like I am God, but that is only because God speaks through me. So, many things I say, especially when I talk about doing what is “Right, Just or Fair,” that is once again God speaking through me. I did not mean to offend anyone, I know it’s like I become a totally different person when I talk about God, but I know it’s because God is speaking through me. I know many times I go back and read what I wrote and I say to myself, “Girl you are harsh!” It’s not me really it’s God most of time talking through me.

Past articles where I have written and spoken about temptation, I know when I write my articles, that you are all reading it. What didn’t occur to me to ask myself is how many people that were chosen by God have actually fallen to temptation? I assumed no one did, but it seems to me that someone did and that is why there is so much arguments going on, plus of course the person who Lucifer is using to get to me. Okay, I want everyone to calm down and listen to me very carefully.

At this stage of the game it doesn’t matter who fell to temptation and I will tell you why? The person or person who fell to temptation you did what you did and you can’t go back and fix it anymore. What is done is done. Now, the person or persons who fell to temptation will now have to go through “Soul Purification.” That is already in progress. The person whose soul have become corrupted by Lucifer also needs to go through “Soul Purification.” The person who’s soul is corrupted by Lucifer is the one who is my biggest threat and that person is the one who can’t stop arguing all the time, for well over a year now, yes you, you know who you are. That person is the one that can do the most damage to a “Holy Person” not the person who fell to temptation. In other words at the end of the day, the person who is pushing and forcing to come to me is the one who can cause me the greatest harm. I can and won’t explain how Lucifer can harm me but one of the ways would be to make me unclean so that I cannot help people in this world. I have written about this on my blog including my recent article about the 7th millennium.

The person or persons who fell to temptation, I want you to stop worrying, stop dwelling on what you have done. Unless you want to keep looking back at the past, it’s up to you to decide how you want to live your life. What you did is not the end of world. All those who fell to temptation your soul can be purified made clean, many people won’t have this opportunity. Okay, many people fall to temptation due to many reasons some are  peer pressure, strong desire or need to be in a same sex relationship, they don’t value their life—I say that because millions of people die from AIDS everyday. Many people do this because they abandon God, they believe that God wants them to be a certain way everyday, plus the entire world is doing it, or their friends are doing it, so they feel it’s okay.

Like I said before, what is done is done, right now my focus is the people who I am here to save and that is those people whom I can’t see but I know they are there. I want everyone to stop worrying because God is going to be setting up a “New Kingdom” Which is called the “World to Come.” We have heard about this for many years mostly from the Nicene Creed and no one knows what “World to Come.” All that will be explained when the times comes. In the meantime, I want everyone to relax no one will be going to hell, everyone will be safe.

To the brother who is so angry right now, you are the one that has Lucifer pushing to come to me. Lucifer’s goal is to “seek and destroy.” That is why everything as been going on for 18 months now with no end in sight. The only person that could cause this much opposition is “Lucifer.” Who is after me like a “Bounty Hunter.” The longest I have had with him is 1 year 3mths approximately, when I was a little girl at 9 years old. That I spoke of on my blog. This is how Lucifer works, intense and prolonged opposition for 1 year, 2 years plus. Acting like I am the only human being on this planet or in the world.  The person who fell to temptation is not a major threat to me, the person who has Lucifer coming after me, and creating alot of strife, arguments and opposition is the one that has me very concerned. That person will also need “Soul Purification.” This will take time, it is not a easy fix but it can be done, and it will be, by God himself. Yes, for the one who can’t stop causing the opposition and arguments, I want to know how you are going to force me to love you? Tell me how you are going to achieve this? This is the 21st century not the 1800’s. I am a very independent and liberated woman, I don’t know how on God’s green earth you feel you can force me to love you. I don’t hate you, but I care very much for your brother, “Bright Eyes.” Yes, and that is my choice. You can cause all the opposition you want, and create all the strife and conflict in the world but you can never steal my heart away from him. Why would you want someone who doesn’t love you like they should? I am sure other people have asked you this before. I was married for 17 years and no relationship cannot survive off “Forced Air.” You need someone to love you back, both people in a relationship can’t just be there for just that. If I don’t love a person back then we have a problem. I don’t like when people force me to do things, do you understand what I am saying.

There are thousands of women out there in the world right now looking for a single man like you, many women who don’t have issues like me. I have alot of complicated issues to deal with. Some of which you all know about. You could be with a woman right now sipping champagne and having a good time with. Look where I am, and you are somewhere out there on a Friday night doing what, trying to get a complicated lady that you can’t ever, ever force to love you. I don’t know where we are going with this, because I don’t appreciate people forcing me to do anything. If I can’t go to the person willing then it ain’t gonna work. “Don’t ever force a woman to love you or a woman from the Caribbean to love you, we are too independent of a woman to let anyone force us to do anything. You are a great looking guy plenty women with less issues like me are out there waiting for someone like you.

You need to work on yourself especially when it comes to your temper, arguments and constant strife, no relationship can work like that none, if you go into a relationship with anyone in the future and you keep arguing like that, that relationship would die before you even reach the bedroom door. Nobody would be getting any action in the bedroom, “I am sorry, I just need to be frank.” Which woman would want to live with anyone who argues and have such a bad temper. Not me. Yes, the door to the bedroom would be closed to you forever, any woman would tell you that. No relationship can’t work like that I am sorry, can’t work. That is why many relationships fail in this world, too much anger and strife, the partners get stressed out and then, they can’t stand been with each other, and then the most important part of the relationship dies. Yes, no sex, which is very important in relationships. Yes, very important, you all know that. We are mature people so, I need to be frank. Yes, the bedroom becomes like Dry land, yeah the desert. Nothing. Then the relationship or marriage dies a slow death. I don’t need that thank you very much.

Anyway, my understanding is that both of you need each other right now. I will also go ahead and say that both of you men need to work on yourselves. Both of you have issues to deal with, but no one in this world is infallible, we all have things we need to work on, including me, I am still learning new things about myself everyday. Stop blaming each other, stop pointing finger at each other, because one person have a huge anger issue and the other person knows what they need to work on. Guess what, as much as I am writing to you all right now, I could write all I want, at the end of the day, if people are not willing to accept responsibility for their actions and start working on themselves I can’t force anyone to do anything.  Yes, as far as I am concerned both of you men have issues you need to work on, and it will be up to you all. I can’t force anyone of you to do something you don’t want to do.

Yes, I could hear my Grandmother right now saying, “You can lead the donkey to water but you can’t force him to drink.” No, once again I am not calling anyone a donkey I am not trying to insult anyone, far from it. This is just a parable in itself. I can talk and write as much as I want, if people aren’t willing to do the work to make themselves become a better person in life, I can’t force them and neither can God.

Everyone need to start calming their spirits, relax take a breather from the arguments and strife and conflict and start to seriously  let God work on the “Purification Process.” God can’t work on people who keep arguing and been angry all the time. I hate to keep repeating myself, but the arguments have to stop. Let God, get to do his work, otherwise we could all be here for a very, very, long time. People need to understand and respect God and let God do his work. I want the arguments, strife and conflict to start to diminish otherwise I won’t communicate with anyone any more. I can’t take the arguments and strife. How can this young man expect to live with anyone including a future person in his life, if he keeps arguing like this. It is not healthy to do this. Not healthy at all.

“Bright Eyes” If I have said anything on my blog that caused you any hurt, or shame I apologize. When I write it comes from God, I want you to understand that I am not making this up just to make you feel better, I do sincerely miss you alot and yes, I am still inlove with you, I think about you every single day, if I said things to hurt you, I was not aware of it because when I write I am always am doing God’s work. God choose you for a reason, and you know in your heart that God choose you, I know you can tell. If you did things in your past that you have now regretted or you feel it was a terrible mistake to do that, whatever it is, know that God has a plan for you, he really does.

Now, is not the time to dwell on the past, what is done is done, you can’t change it, and it should be obvious to you by now, that God doesn’t want to judge you, he wants to make you into a better person. Remember I always say this on my blog, “God can see into all of us hearts, all of us.” Yes, you might have done things that you regretted in your life, but that doesn’t make you the worst person on the planet. Okay, I want you to understand this. Other people around you, will want to make you feel that way, but your not, you have a good heart and a good soul, I know that and so does God.  Don’t let anyone try to make you become a bitter person in life. Don’t let anyone destroy your spirit. No one in this world is perfect. If we all look back on history, God always chooses people who have things they need to work on. Let me tell you with all honesty, that I have had my share of things I needed to work on. God had me working since I was 9 years old and still he continues today.

Yes, I know I said many things that may have hurt some people, but people need to be in my shoe, I came here to do God’s work, If I can’t speak the truth when I am doing God’s work, then what is the point? I would be doing God, a great disservice. Everybody wants the truth, but many people can’t handle the truth. I have to speak the truth, I have to express what God would have wanted me to express. If I constantly tell lies to people then no one would respect anything I have to say. God expects me to carry out his vision and the only way to that is to—Speak the truth. Yes, recently I spoke about the grey hair stuff, but once again if people were in my shoe they would want to protect themselves and try to keep themselves safe. I am sure many people have said things in the past to friends or acquaintances to try and stay safe, no harm in that.

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When You Need To Remember God Loves You

Dear Lord, I pray that You will always keep me protected from the snare of people who may want to harm me so that I am never taken captive by them. I know You will do that because I am Your child and You love me. Help me to never do anything careless or stupid that would cause me to come out from under the covering of Your protection that You give to those who love You and live Your way.

A servant of the Lord must not quarrel but be gentle to all, able to teach, patient, in humility correcting those who are in opposition, if God perhaps will grant them repentance, so that they may know the truth, and that they may come to their senses and escape the snare of the devil, having been taken captive by him to do his will.

2 Timothy 2:24-26

It’s the weekend and I need to relax and take a breather, I suggest everyone do the same.

Love the Band Perry….enjoy 
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Yes, I will flip the switch on everyone, I won’t talk to anyone.
Love, Sean Paul….I don’t wanna fight!

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Yes, who doesn’t love Kid Rock, love this song….Let’s roll

Daily Thoughts and Affirmations

A piazza is a must-have room in a Charleston home—Charleston Charm courtesy of “Southern Living Magazine Online.”

 

Booster Shots For Living

 Reposted Article: Saturday, February 26, 2011

I decided to repost this article because so many people carry regrets in their hearts, and I don’t want people to dwell on their mistakes for the rest of their lives. This article is for you “Bright Eyes.” I want you to let it go, please. You didn’t do anything wrong, you think you did, but you didn’t. That is how Lucifer works, he will make you do things you don’t want to do. So, try to let the regret and guilt go, your still carrying it, and it makes me sad to see you do this.

Update: February 23,2011
If there is anyone around you relatives, friends or people you or others work with that you feel may need to be entered into “Purgatory” otherwise known as “Soul Purification” then their wish can be granted. All they have to do is say the Nicene Creed shown below and say their full name and they will be entered automatically everything else will be taken care of by God.

All those who enter “Purgatory” can see this as their first step to going to Heaven. Yes, everything is done behind the scenes but only a “Holy Person” would know when the time for Purgatory is completed. People going through “Purgatory” cannot live in sin. Meaning continue to fall to temptation, and commit any crimes. Purgatory is to be taken seriously and it will take time, patience is needed not fear, but patience.  Amen and God bless.

Nicene Creed—A Catholic Prayer

We believe in one God, the Father, the Almighty
maker of heaven and earth, of all that is seen and
unseen.

We believe in one Lord, Jesus Christ, the only Son of God,
Eternally begotten of the Father,
God from God, Light from Light, true God from true God,
begotten, not made, one in Being with the Father.
For us men and for our salvation
he came down from heaven:
by the power of the Holy Spirit
he was born of the Virgin Mary, and became man.

For our sake he was crucified under Pontius Pilate;
he suffered, died, and was buried.
On the third day he rose again in fulfillment of the Scriptures;
he ascended into heaven and is seated at the right hand of the Father. He will come again in glory to judge the living and the dead, and his kingdom will have no end.

We believe in the Holy Spirit, the Lord, the giver of life,
who proceeds from the Father and the Son, With the Father and the Son he is worshiped and glorified.
He has spoken through the Prophets.
We believe in one holy catholic and apostolic Church.
We acknowledge on baptism for the the forgiveness of sins.
We look for the resurrection of the dead, and the life of the world to come.

Original Article

Today I would like to share this short prayer with you from my children’s newsletter from catholic school that I thought fit into my topic of discussion for today:

Oh, lord,
You call me to be holy
to be a sign of your goodness.
help me to live each day singing your praise. Give me the
strength to remain calm when all around me grow frantic.
Give me the courage to respond to anger with kindness. Give
me the wisdom to choose love over hatred, patience over fear.
With your grace, I can be a sign of the sacred, a sign of your love,
a witness to all that is holy.
Amen.

Joss Stone is my featured singer of the week because of her song. “I have a right to be wrong.” It is best to read through what I have written then when you are finished reading, listen to the song, or listen to the song while you read, your choice. This song, is powerful and so I wanted to expand on what the song says in so many words. You can interpret the song in two ways. One, you have a right to be wrong, any mistakes you make in life their yours for keeps, eventually you learn from them. No one should try to tell you how to live your life, you have to learn on your own. The other way of looking at it is that any mistakes you make in life will make you stronger, much stronger.

“Why?” Because you learn from your mistakes. Finally, if you made a mistake or you have a regret over something and you can fix your mistake well do that. Hopefully, you won’t make the same mistake again. Joss Sings, “Don’t smother me with negativity.” So, you made a huge mistake, now your paying for your mistake, but that’s what life is about, if we don’t make mistakes we can’t learn, right? So, that’s what the song is about. We all at some point in life end up with a really big mistake we made that’s why we are imperfect beings, that’s why it’s not good to lay blame on others too fast because we are not perfect and we will make our share of mistakes one day. Recently, I wrote this in one of my blog articles titled: “Learning to Surrender to a Higher Purpose” January 29, 2011. The idea is God made us to be imperfect so that we can learn the lessons he wants us to learn. We will make mistakes, and mess up a few times  along the way, but the idea is for us to learn and grow from our mistakes.

 

The Song

The song is about when people around us are negative.  In the song, Joss sings “Don’t smother me with negativity.” You know the naysayers, the people who can’t find anything good out of any given situation no matter how much you try to make them happy, nothing makes them happy. They always hope for the worse or assume the worse is going to happen or they wish you the worse in life. It’s really sad when people do this. Instead of cheering you on in life, they decide it’s better to root for you to fall. What I know from life is that what you send out is what you get back. It’s Karma. So, the song is about so many things but mainly when we decide to do something important in life, then the naysayers move in like a dark storm on the horizons and they don’t stop until they kill our dreams, desires or wishes in life. So, Joss sings, “I’ve got a right to be wrong, my mistakes will make me strong.” Just leave me alone, basically what she wants is to make her own choices, her own decisions in life, don’t smother her with negativity.

If we say unkind words to someone, or we shout at someone who makes us angry, the universe doesn’t reprimand us so bad-----but when we really, really hurt someone, and I’m talking about the kind of hurt that shakes you to the core or in such a way that puts you in harms way. Then the universe says, “I’m sorry but we can’t let you hurt this person again or anyone else for that matter.” Hence, Karma. What you send out to the universe comes back to you. So, everyone please, try to send out nothing but good into the universe.

Sincerity in Relationships

 In order to truly love anyone, “we must as humans learn to love ourselves first. Who out there doesn’t want “True authentic love.” and desires that in their lives today?” True love is so precious and valuable and so hard to find, so when you find true love don’t waste it. The Universe, God and Angels works overtime to get us what we prayed and wish for so don’t take love for granted. There are so many people waiting to be happy right now, waiting to find their right match so when you think you have found the “One” so to speak  your soul mate then cherish that person, don’t take love for granted, because when you do---You could lose it forever. Like Joss sings, “I am flesh and bone……. I’m not made of stone,”…….No, I am not made of stone and neither are other people.

Real Love

Real Authentic love we all desires and wants it, some people find it but waste it and others understand the value of what it means to find true love, their one true soul mate. “How do you know when someone really loves another human being?” When they love someone truly love them, they don’t want not even the rain to fall on them because they feel the rain will hurt them. When they love someone, they will fight to their last breath for any injustice done against the person, they will ward off Goliath and all and not let anyone hurt them because they love them so much. They will stand up for the ones they love and protect them at all cost.

That’s what real authentic love is. They will not judge the person based on face value but on what they are made of from the inside. With all due respect, most of us humans judge people we come across daily at face value, I have done that a few times throughout my life and so have many other people. Many people  just don’t want to admit it that they do judge people at face value but they do it everyday. Most importantly, they will trust the person they love and not let others influence their love for the person they have no matter what, they will support the person they love always. They will respect you. They will value the person above any other person they have ever known. When we love someone we will accept all their faults, warts and all, we see the person beyond just face value.

“Would you give your life up for someone you love if you had to?” That’s what real love is all about, you love someone so much you can’t or won’t let anyone or anything hurt them. Those who have loved or have someone they love right now, know what I am talking about. Those of you who have children can understand this question. “Would you let anyone hurt your children, wouldn’t you do everything in your power to protect them.” Would you give your life up for your children if you had to?” Well, the same thing goes for those who say they love someone, if you love the person like you say then you would protect them and not hurt them, right?

Forgiveness

Okay, so I know what some of my readers are saying right now. Well, sometimes your boyfriend or spouse hurts you and what about forgiveness. Yes, I always encourage forgiveness. Forgive the person for hurting you, and forgive yourself. When you don’t forgive someone you limit your own path to future happiness, so forgive them completely and sincerely, don’t hold on to resentment. What’s done is done, right? When you are unable to forgive someone in life, what happens is we create this invisible wall that blocks any kind of happiness from coming into your lives. The wall doesn’t come down until you forgive. “Do you have friends male or females who are unable to find a partner after 1, 2, 5, sometimes 10 yrs. later?”, They keep saying they can’t find anyone to love them. Well, what’s happening to them is that they haven’t yet let go of the resentment in their past relationships, they need to forgive the person and forgive themselves. Nearly a year ago, my marriage ended, I forgave the person for what they did and then I forgive myself. Forgiving myself meant that I let go of any or all resentment or anger I had, I did that a long time ago. Forgiving them meant that it cleared my path to future happiness and it allows me to move on with my life and for them to move on as well. I am so over any feelings of resentment or anger, so over it a long time ago, so I know I don’t have a wall blocking me. When you forgive someone you then open up this doorway on a cosmic level and all the love that you desire and wished for, all the happiness you seek will eventually come to you. Once again for those who haven’t seen the movie yet, I recommend you watch “Eat Pray Love.” 

 Tolerance Level

Let me just elaborate on that and ask, “How high is your tolerance level, It’s up to you to decide. On a scale of 1-10 how much pain can you take? What kind of hurt are we talking about? Constant infidelity, emotional abuse, lack of respect, lying or just simple not showing up when they are suppose to, someone who lets you down all the time and don’t follow through on their promises. You know your own pain, everyone have a pain threshold.  “What are you willing to tolerate?” It’s important to forgive someone for hurting you, but the question is do you forgive them and then let them continue to hurt you? If you know the persons reputation and they always hurt you all the time, then forgive them but move on and find someone who really cares about you and respect you. If they are Not a repeat offender, then forgive the person and continue on your life with them if you feel safe to do so, but only after they prove to you without a doubt that they are sincere about not hurting you again, don’t accept any lackluster apology, it has to be sincere and from the heart.

The Apology

Saying, “I am sorry,” can’t cut it. They would have to go way further than I am sorry, it’s up to you to let them know what they need to do to prove to you that they won’t ever hurt you again. Remember life is short and precious so don’t stay in a relationship if it’s toxic. Move on with your life, start fresh again and know that God will bring someone into your life eventually who will love you and respect you and won’t want to hurt you. Respect is very important in relationships.

 

“I gotta mind of my own……., I’m flesh and blood to the bone, I’m not made a stone……” ---Joss Stone

Patio House Picture courtesy of (Southern living Mag.)

We must as humans align our actions with our thoughts.  In other words, If you say you are going to do something do it, don’t back pedal, and don’t break your promises. My Grandmother always tells me this when I was a small girl growing up, never break your promises, if you know you can’t keep a promise then don’t make it. I am that kind of person today, when I say I am going to do something I do it, I work hard at not trying to break any promises. I have two wonderful children and whenever I feel I won’t be able to fulfill their wishes or desires I have a meeting with them and I tell them the truth. I don’t quote an quote—“Sugar Quote it.” Or tell them yes, when in fact I mean no, I don’t ever do that. My marriage has ended after seventeen years and I am not going to back pedal and second guess myself, like some people do. I don’t second guess myself when it comes to important decisions. I take what I do seriously, I don’t make fun with important decisions. So, align your actions with your thoughts. Everyone always say, “I wish I could find that special someone who will love me unconditionally.” Then God answers their prayers and give them their wish and “what do they do?” They take God’s gift and the love he sent them for granted. They keep hurting the one person that God sent into their lives to make them happy. I don’t know why people do this but it happens. Actually, I feel the reason people do this it’s because they don’t feel they deserve to be happy. So, subconsciously they hurt their own chances for happiness and guess what they often blame you for causing them to be unhappy, they never take responsibility for their own actions.

So, If you really love someone show them all the time that you love them. Do whatever it takes to prove to the ones you love that you really do love them and prove it to them everyday. It doesn’t have to be fancy and dramatic, we live in the real world not in fairyland, right? So, just show them everyday you love them by been thoughtful, kind and respectful. Showing someone you love them doesn’t mean you go out and buy them the best thing you can find, that’s not what I am talking about. Yes, gifts are nice but remember the phrase, “Thoughtful gestures.” I am not talking about material gifts. A person who needs material gifts everyday in their lives is a person who lacks “Emotional Strength.” 

Your actions in a relationship is what counts. What I think men should really ask themselves is, “What kind of a man would I like to be known for or remembered for twenty, thirty years from now?” Would I like to be remembered as a great husband and father?” What kind of legacy would I like to leave behind?” I am not talking about material legacy, the house, the car, the money in the bank. No, I am talking about your legacy in terms of relationship with others. I know most men don’t want to leave behind the kind of legacy that Tiger Woods will be remembered for.

Respect

My Grandmother and Grandfather taught me so much about respect when it comes to relationships. Guess what, they never, ever disrespected each other, never. Whenever they had a disagreement they would both take a breather, my Grandfather would jump on his bicycle and take off for an hour or two and come back. They never go at each other ever, and he never ever shouted at her they were together for over 50 yrs before she passed away. Whenever there was a big decision they needed to make they did it together. That’s my Grandfathers legacy and I respect him for that he made me proud, and I am happy to have him as a Grandfather, that’s what I mean by having a legacy. They both respected each other completely and they never took their love for granted. Most importantly, they trusted each other.

Be kind, thoughtful, respectful and caring to your partner. The small gestures go a long way.  Don’t break your promises to the ones you love, if you can’t keep a promise then don’t make one and love them like you’ll never see them again. If you know you have hurt someone try to make amends, apologize if you can, ask for their forgiveness, repair the damage if you can, but if this is not possible and the damage is beyond repair, forgive yourself, make peace with yourself, and learn from the experience don’t dwell on it for the rest of your life.

Okay, lets look at life this way. Most of us nowadays watch television and we watch all these home improvement shows. Lets forget about the home improvement shows for now, and think about when we are ready to build our first home. Most of us get real upset if one thing in the house is off and is not constructed properly. Why? Because we are spending thousands of dollars to build our dream home. We see people sometimes will go livid if the wrong tile colour is installed or the wrong paint goes on the wall. They will throw a fit, and blow a gasket if the house is not constructed properly, heck! They will probably sue the builder. So, “Why can’t we put the same passion into our relationships and construct it in the same way we want our dream home to be?” Think about that for awhile, something to ponder on , don’t you think?

So, Joss sings, “I am flesh and bone I am not made of stone….” We feel pain when someone hurts us either emotionally or physically. Don’t believe that the person doesn’t hurt, we are all made of flesh and bone---we will hurt. Ask yourself, “If I love someone everyday and not hurt them would that make me happy or sad?” “The greatest gift we could give ourselves is the gift to make others happy not for us to cause others unhappiness.” Always remember this.

So, it’s important in life to always do good, to not hurt the ones you love do not harm others in such a way that you put their lives in jeopardy. When people hurt others it’s never about you it’s about them. Oprah did a show about this a while back. When others hurt us, “It’s always about how they feel inside about themselves and they in turn project their negative thoughts and actions unto others which in turn ends up hurting others.”

Photo: Ralph Anderson, Article: Rebecca Bull Reed

*Nurture the people you care about like this beautiful—Princess Blush plant (shown above).

Mistakes & Regrets

There are times in our lives where we find we have made mistakes and our mistakes turn to regrets or remorse. If you made a mistake or you have regrets about something in life, learn from it, when things like that happen to us in life it’s meant to teach us a lesson, the universe or God wants us to learn a valuable lesson. So look at the mistake or mistakes you made and ask yourself, “What is God trying to tell me, what lesson does he want me to learn?” Does God, want me to learn patience, kindness, respect, does God want me to value myself and others more, does God want me to learn to curb my anger, does he want me to be more giving or to be more humble, what his he trying to teach me? Once you get to that “Ha, Ha moment” where you know what  lesson God wants you to learn, then don’t make the same mistake again. We all have made mistakes in life but like Joss sings, “My mistakes will make me strong.” So, your mistakes will make you stronger because you won’t want to make the same mistakes again---so, that’s why it’s important to find out what lesson or lessons God wants you to learn. We as humans will at some point in life have at least one regret something we wish we could change or turn back the clock so to speak. If we can’t change, fix, rectify or amend our mistake etc, etc, then guess what, you make peace with yourself, learn from the experience but-----“Don’t make the same mistake again.

“How can we expect to live our lives according to God’s will or to have a life of inner peace and happiness if all we can do is offer up negativity everyday?” I don’t like to be surrounded by negative people. I always look on the brighter side of life, because no matter how difficult life gets there is always a solution, always. There is always hope that the next day will be brighter than the day before. I should know, I have been there many times before. Life never remains static. Don’t get me wrong, everyday is not a bed of roses for me. There are tough days in my life, there are days when I wonder am I going to be able to keep my kids safe and happy and be able to get through the next day or the next week, but I never, ever stay in the doldrums for long. I never do. I always look on the brighter side of things. My life experiences thought to be resilient and because God has touched my life in many profound ways, I always maintain a positive outlook, because I trust that he will be there for me when I need him.

God never, ever leaves us alone. I have written about this on my blog before. God will always be there for you too. It is also good if you have a small or large family to do a circle prayer. Everyone hold hands and say your favourite prayer, ask God to give you strength and guidance and patience with dealing with whatever issues you have right now and he will. So, if you are going through a difficult time right now, trust that God knows what you are going through and he will help you. God works in very mysterious ways that I have learnt over the years, and he always have a plan, so always remain open to life. Let me tell you, “If you can still breath there is always hope.” Like Joss sings in her song, “Whatever is out there waiting for me I’m gonna face it willing…….” So, face life full on don’t let anyone tell you are not going to make it in life or that you will never achieve your dreams because you will.

Align yourself with positive thoughts and yes, positive people. Stay positive at all times, and remain open to the possibilities of what life can offer you.

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Louise L. Hay Author of “You can heal your life.”

Daily Affirmation

In the infinity of life where I am, all is perfect, whole and complete. I live in harmony and balance with everyone I know. Deep at the center of my being, there is an infinite well of love. I now allow this love to flow to the surface.

It fills my heart, my body, my mind, my consciousness, and returns to me multiplied. The more love I use and give, the more I have to give. The supply is endless.

The use of love makes me feel good; it is an expression of my inner joy. I love myself; therefore, I take loving care of  my body.

I lovingly feed it nourishing foods and beverages, I lovingly groom it and dress it, and my body lovingly responds to me with vibrant health and energy.

I love myself'; therefore, I provide for myself a comfortable home one that fills all my needs and is a pleasure to be in. I fill the rooms with the vibration of love so that all who enter, myself included, will feel this love and be nourished by it.

I love myself; therefore I behave and think in a loving way to all people for I know that which I give out returns to me multiplied.

Louise L. Hay Author of “You can heal your life.” http://www.louisehay.com/

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When I Need to Remember Who I Am in Christ

Thank You, Lord, that You are a God who keeps His promises. They never fail, and I am Your servant for whom Your promises are intended. I reach out today to receive from You all that You have for my life, and I ask that all Your promises will be fulfilled in me. Cleanse me from anything unhealthy or any desire or goal that is not Your best for my life. Cleanse me from anything that keeps me from becoming all You made me to be in Christ.

Having these promises, beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from anything unhealthy, by perfecting holiness in the fear of God.

2 Corinthians 7:1

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Featured Musician of the Week---Joss Stone

Joscelyn Eve Stoker is 23 yrs.old and is a British soul singer-songwriter and actress.  She goes by her stage name Joss Stone http://www.jossstone.com/In addition, She also made her film acting debut in late 2006 with the fantasy adventure film Eragon, and made her television debut portraying Anne of Cleves in the Showtime series The Tudors in 2009.

 

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Part 2 of Rosary (click link)

Messages of Hope

 

 

Happy Family Day! Everyone, yeah I forgot, I have a lot on my mind, plus my kids are a handful, they are driving me crazy. I know I just gave him good news and still he’s behaving bad, I know. Keep working on him, and keep him out of trouble if you know what I mean.

This is just a brief message to all those who are working on behalf of God today. Especially God’s chosen people. I will be communicating with everyone as time goes by.

This is important that I will be telling you. God is a very loving God, God would have had a specific plan for your son the one who is not himself right now. That is why God sent this “Holy Person” to your family. He sent them to save your son not to hurt him. Any hurt he his going through right now is all psychological and some physical changes but he will live for a very long time. This is important for you to remember, no he won’t die young.
Okay, this part is very important also. God has is original spirit his soul in temporary rest on hold. I know it sounds strange to you right now but bear with me. The spirit he has right now is there because we need to keep that spirit earth bound. God had to do it this way so that everyone including those in your family remains safe. That way God and can do his work. God had no other choice but to do it this way.

This is very important. Do not discuss any plans concerning this “Holy Person” around the brother who is not well right now. He is very sharp, every time he is up to no good I know. Yes, I know. He’s always coming up with nothing but bad things all to hurt everyone including me and everyone on this planet. He could use what you say to hurt the “Holy Person” or his brother. Don’t discuss private things around him. Trust me, I know how he works. Anything you say he will continue to use to create more opposition so don’t discuss nothing private around him from now on or in the future. He is too messed up emotionally right now. Remember he is not him, the soul he has is corrupted, so when he speaks it’s not him talking. It will take years for him to calm down mentally.

Purgatory

Please know that God’s intention is not to harm anyone. Notice God did not hurt him physically with bodily harm. Any changes he goes through right now is all emotional as well as the changes with his hair. I would like everyone to hold on to this hope of a better time for him. It won’t happen now but in the end he will go on to heaven. What he his going through his what I call “Spiritual Suffering.” Where the soul is then Reborn. Think of “Purgatory.” It seems like God is punishing him but in fact he is in a better state than the rest of the people on this planet. He his in “Purgatory” right now on earth, that way by the time he’s ready to pass over which will be a long time from now he would have repaid his debt back to God so to speak. Many people in this world won’t make it to “Purgatory” so this is not so bad. Please try not to worry too much so stop concentrating on him burning in hell because he won’t be going there after been on earth and been in the situation he his in right now, he will stay in purgatory a state of rest so his soul can be “Purified then go to heaven.” So think of this of “Cleansing of the Spirit.” Everyone within your family right now will be going to heaven those whom God have chosen because you will all receive “Everlasting life,” the ability to live a longer life on this planet. Your son/brother will be with you as the years go by for a long time so don’t worry about him passing. That is why I said, “Keep him safe don’t let him try to hurt himself or anyone because in the end he will be okay to go to heaven.”

Yes, He will not be himself for a long time because his spirit is soul is going through a rough time. Make sure someone is around him all the time and keep anything away from him that he could use to harm anyone around him. So, I am asking everyone including his brother not to concentrate on his brother burning in hell because he won’t be going there, when God is ready to take him home he will be going to Heaven instead so there is some good news. His soul will be fully cleanse of any sin he was carrying. He is also not allowed to be intimate with anyone at anytime during purgatory. Yes, it will be difficult but it must be done.  He is also not allowed to be in any contact with small children or babies. This is very important. I am not trying to embarrass him far from it I am trying to protect him. He will be telling you constantly to keep trusting him. He will say trust him, trust him. Well don’t Especially if he needs to go somewhere on his own. Someone must always be with him at all times. Like I say, I am trying to keep him safe if he goes anywhere on his own, he will do things that no one can see. If he continues to sin then he will not be able to go to Heaven. Yes, he will have to be under a strict regimen. If everyone wants him to go to Heaven then these are the things we will need to do to protect him.

Do not leave him at home by himself, he could hurt himself even if he says he his okay, never believe him, it will take years for him to be anywhere mentally stable enough to be on his own, he is too angry emotionally right now and is not thinking rationally. I want everyone to keep him safe. If you have to hire people to help keep him stay safe then do that. If he needs to go to the office someone will have to be there to follow him or let him work from home which most people do nowadays with all the technology God created he can work from home. He should also not be drinking any alcohol at this time. (If I think of more things I will post it.) If everyone thinks of anything else to keep him safe then do it.

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His mind is not rational right now. Think of men who become Priest on this earth everyday. Well, he won’t have to stay in “Purgatory” for the rest of his life, but he will need to stay in purgatory for awhile in order to go to heaven. I know how long he will have to stay but I won’t say because I want him to stay safe so he can go to “Heaven.” I know when his “Purgatory period will finish—but I am not going to be telling him until the time comes. Yes, one day he will be able to have a relationship with someone  in the future, but it is not time yet. So, please everyone stop feeling so sad, he will be okay, stop worrying and feeling so sad, he will be just fine. God wasn’t going to let anything happen to him. I know he was worried sick out of his mind that he would have to be like that for the rest of his life—No, he doesn’t have to, I just needed him to calm down and behave himself he as an explosive personality all by himself doesn’t he? Anyway, that is also part of “Spiritual Suffering.” I have been through alot of Spiritual Suffering to get to where I am right now and I am sure I have more to do in the years to come.   This is very important when someone is going through purgatory. That is what purgatory is all about he has to do this to cleanse his spirit his soul so he can go to heaven. Yes, he needs to stay away from sin or been with people who will want to take him down that road again.

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Okay, this message is for the brother who is okay. I want you to stop holding on to all that regret you are carrying in your heart. You have been carrying this regret and remorse in your heart for over a year now. Stop it, you didn’t do anything wrong, everything happened has planned by God himself. You did nothing wrong. So, I want you to let it go, stop feeling so guilty and so sad, everything will work out okay. I don’t want you to go through life carrying this regret and this remorse and guilt for the rest of your entire life. Make that promise to God the Father and keep it.

The same thing goes for everyone else around him right now. After his brother goes through this state of “Purgatory” he will be safe enough to go to heaven. It was the only way God could keep him safe. In the meantime, please continue to keep each other safe especially around him because for a long time to come he will be very angry, violent at times, depressed, sad all those emotions. Don’t hold to those emotions, Hold on to where he will be in the end, yes, he will be going back to heaven but he has to go through this stage of “Purgatory” for now. 

This is why God has Purgatory for those who will need to save their souls. So, your brother is upset with himself right now, I can understand that but he needs to try to calm down and focus on going to a better place after this. Many people in the world will die and not get this opportunity. God is trying to save him and God knows this that is why he is there now in that situation so that he can “Cleanse his Soul.”

For the Brother

To the brother who is safe I know your name I just don’t want to say it. I was not only trying to save you, your family and your brother but everyone on this planet. I knew you were there the whole time, I know how difficult it is for you, I know what you went through, torture comes to mind, it’s been over one year plus now so I know it was extremely difficult for you. Yes, things will go on for a bit longer but that is part of the whole thing. I want you to pray for your brother even though he’s angry with you right now.

Since it is a difficult time for you right now I want you to concentrate when you get stressed out on anything other than sex even mental sex, fantasies about sex, the less the better. I know it is hard but focus on healing your spirit. Concentrate on other things. Hit the gym, hang out with a few friends who won’t want to lead you to trouble. Yes, your brother will be angry about this, he knows if you concentrate on too much mental sexual fantasies, it could cause problems for you spiritually. So, notice he will always want you to get stressed out all the time. I tell you, be careful around him, he’s very slick, don’t discuss nothing around him. That is why he is causing all this opposition.

The key to all of us staying safe is sexuality. So, no porn for anyone in the family, limit the sexual fantasies, limit masturbation. In order for all of  us to stay safe you and the “Holy Person” must fall in love sincerely with each other. So, stop thinking about your brother going to hell, he’s not going to hell anymore, and start to get reacquainted with the feelings you had for me when you first met me.  Try to get your spirits uplifted again, slowly but it can happen. Don’t stay depressed long. It will take some time but do it slowly, I will do the same. Everything I am telling you right now will upset your brother but don’t worry with him. Focus on getting focused right now. I have so many things I need to tell you about to stay careful not all of it I can write on the blog, because your brother and who else knows is reading all this. Maybe contact by email would work.

I know how you feel sometimes. Sometimes you don’t feel like you want to say any prayers for him because you are angry with him and that is okay to be angry, I get angry too. I know, I am crying too right now, because I didn’t want him to be in that position. I am sorry for what you had to go through, but I knew you were there and I know how you feel. Try not to let your brother get you too upset. Right now he’s very angry it will take a long time for him to calm down a long time. I know how stressful it has been for you. What motivates me everyday are my two children, now I know why God gave them to me, so that I could hold on to them when things get difficult. Yes, I know your brother in the state he is in wanted to hurt me and the kids, I knew but I tried real hard to focus on what I came here to do. Why? I don’t want anyone on this planet to get hurt, and I don’t want to come back and do this again. It is so difficult and yes sometimes dangerous. Anyway, pray, stay safe and surround yourself with good people. Talk to you later.

One last important thing, try to let him be outside whenever he can be but not on his own. On a porch or outside somewhere don’t let him stay in a dark room all the time not good for the mind, it will only depressed him further. So, when spring comes lots of sunshine, you get the idea, but never leave him alone by himself. He is a risk not only to himself but to others right now.

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